There is a little known yet secretly popular travel sector dedicated to clothing optional, swinger friendly couples with an erotic twist. We don't need to call it a sex vacation, but really – that's what it is. It's the perfect place to explore kinky fantasies with your lover along with other like-minded couples. Anything can happen! This is not something you'll see advertised in your local newspaper or on TV, it probably won't even show up on your Instagram feed but there is a giant niche that caters to kinky couples looking for a sexy, highly erotic vacation. This is not just reserved for Europeans or Americans traveling to Mexico [think the sex palace of Cancun], you'll find erotic vacations spots everywhere.

Start your search here at Oyster, a popular website that analyzes different types of hotels, resort and provides information you probably won't find anywhere else. We like that Oyster talks about kinky vacation destinations spread all over the world. It is convenient to find one near you so you don't need to spend so much to go on a holiday someplace far away. You can stay close to home, bring your sex toys and save some money and embarrassment at the TSA counter while they examine your vibrator motor before allowing you to board the airplane. Yikes...

It's no secret that Las Vegas shows up first on the list, the city of debauchery, so if you headed there be sure to pack the extra kinky toys for your stay. Think of strap-on toys that you would normally not consider because when you're going to a sex hotel, you might as well go all out! Leave those inhibitions at home! These rooms are very lavish too, even featuring a stripper pole in the shower. Now THAT'S a fantastic idea, I bet that people will start installing poles in the shower in their master bathroom everywhere!

Thinking about the Caribbean? Hedonism was the first resort of its kind and honestly, the pioneer of the entire sex vacation strategy. It's a place where you can couples swap, so it's like putting your keys in the fishbowl at a swingers party, but no one has to drive home here! Many people still like the Hedonism resorts in Jamaica, but not everyone can afford to travel so far. We like the Desire Pearl in the Mayan Riviera is a new extra deluxe place where swingers can strut their stuff in the nude if they want. It's a quick jaunt from Florida and good for budget-minded adults.

We still like Las Vegas because you can buy sex toys pretty much anywhere whereas if you travel to Mexico, sex shops aren't really in direct reach of the tourist zones – with the exception of Cancun, the spring break party central of Mexico! Don't be embarrassed when the customs agent opens your suitcase and finds your stash of vibrators. It can be a little embarrassing especially since they like to check your luggage before departing the country.